After lunch on the first day of the Congress, the Living with Diabetes stream got all technical with a couple of sessions on diabetes tech.

The first was billed as a debate: #WeAreWaiting versus #WeAreNotWaiting, and the speakers in the session were Annie Astle (found on the interwebs as Understudy Pancreas) and Dana Lewis (found on the interwebs as Dana Lewis, because everyone knows Dana).

I loved this idea of this session, which was to give different perspectives about how people with diabetes are making decisions about the technology the choose – or choose not – to use.

I was acting as Chair and used my time when introducing the session and the speakers to highlight that the ‘My Diabetes, My Rules’ idea was going to be really emphasised in the next hour or so.

It’s hard not to get swept up in a movement as exciting, interesting and ground-breaking as the #WeAreNotWaiting movement. There are a lot of people speaking about it, and a lot of people extolling the benefits of using their DIY system. I know I need to rein in just how evangelical I am at times about my Looping experience, because I am so effusive about how transformative it has been for me.

And when Dana speaks, it’s even more apparent just how revolutionary the technology is, and how remarkable the evolution of diabetes DIY is in such a regulated and conservative ‘industry’.

But it’s not for everyone. And we need to hear from those people too.

Annie shared the story of her teenage daughter living with type 1 diabetes, Pumplette, and explained why her family is waiting and not jumping on board the DIY APS bandwagon. Let’s be clear here, this is not because they are luddites; they actually do embrace technology. Pumplette starting on a pump at the tiny age of one-year-old. (Annie showed a photo of baby Pumplette with her pump which was more than half the length of her leg.) Plus, Pumplette uses CGM with share capabilities, allowing Annie to stay connected to what’s going on with her daughter even while eight hours away. (Or, as my daughter and Pumplette like to say during their regular conversations ‘While our mothers abandon us’. Digression, but Annie, introducing these girls has paid dividends for our mother guilt, hasn’t it?)

While embracing commercially available technologies, Pumplette has chosen to not use Loop or Open APS.

And that sentence I have just written says it all. The decision to not use a DIY system is fundamentally Pumplette’s decision. What Annie wants is not relevant. Pumplette’s diabetes; Pumplette’s rules.

I have long admired Annie’s parenting approach. She has three daughters who are the most delightful, considerate, smart, sassy, talented, funny girls I’ve had the good fortune to get to know. I shouldn’t have been surprised when we met on the streets of NYC last year that they would be like this – I’d been reading Annie’s blog and had met her a number of times, and these great girls are the result of having been given freedom and independence while being supported, loved and nurtured. And this approach extends to Pumplette’s diabetes.

It’s really hard as a parent not to push what we want onto our kids. I know that I catch myself all the time from steering my kid in a particular direction because I think it’s the right one (or it’s what I want), when I know that really, she needs to make the decisions herself and the best thing I can do is step back, watch, support and encourage, stepping in when asked. I can only imagine how much more difficult this would be if with kids with diabetes.

Annie’s talk at the Congress showed me once again that she continues to parent at expert level. Her girls are so lucky.

Annie’s talk can be heard here (you’ll need to have a Facebook account to view it).



I was the Deputy Lead for the Living with Diabetes Stream, and an invited speaker at the 2017 IDF Congress. The International Diabetes Federation covered my travel and accommodation costs and provided me with registration to attend the Congress.

…And this disclosure too

Annie is one of my dearest friends. I love her to pieces. But even though she is one of my favourite people in the world, everything I have written here is true and I am certainly not the only person to feel this way about her!